No Matter How Empowered You Feel, You’re Still a Slut

No Matter How Empowered You Feel, You’re Still a Slut

I watched Sex and the City.

I embrace my sexuality, wholeheartedly.

I’m a grown ass woman and make grown ass decisions (and mistakes).

Yet, as much as people rebuke books like The Rules or Steve Harvey’s Think Like a Man, and call them archaic and unfashionable, there is some validity to them.  I talked it up and reassured myself things would be fine, but they weren’t. I deserved to let down my guard a little bit. I had been on a sex sabbatical for close to a year. Having sex on the second date won’t be some life-altering, catastrophic step. Right?

But…when the phone calls and texts suddenly come to a standstill…you start to reconsider.

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Is Your Man Still Sexy, If He Wears a Hair Bonnet to Bed?

Is Your Man Still Sexy, If He Wears a Hair Bonnet to Bed?

I have hair envy. I  admit it. I’m okay with it. I have dealt with my issues. My hair is super fine and kinky. At best, the tiny, ebony coils of my crown hang slightly below my ear. I recognize that the producers of Pantene commercials  will probably not be knocking on my door anytime soon. Consequently, dating a man with exponentially long hair  was never something I would’ve  ever considered. Man buns and dreadlocks were never on my menu until…

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When Crazy Comes Walking…Cross the Street!

When Crazy Comes Walking…Cross the Street!

Mama used to always say, “If it looks like a duck, quacks like a duck; it’s a duck!” You don’t try to argue its features, nor decipher if the duck will one day bark or cluck. It’s a duck! I approach dating with the same philosophy. If it sounds crazy, looks crazy, chances are…

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